Wednesday, May 1, 2013

The Things You Learn

Today is my very last day at the company I've worked for since August. It's the shortest amount of time I've ever spent at a job, other than my short stint at BB & B - If you're known as the clumsiest person most people know, don't try to work there. Climbing ladders is a condition of employment. I've always considered myself a very loyal person, so I wasn't surprised when I woke up this morning feeling a bit guilty about all of my responsibilities that I have to hand back over to my boss, and to my bosses boss. They aren't replacing my role, it's just not an option at this time.

However, in the short nine months that I've been here I've learned a lot about a little, and pretty much nothing about the industry. It is what it is, and I'm super excited to be moving on to a company where education, training, and personal growth are just three of the virtues that they insist upon their employees.

This morning while I was getting ready (between 7:45 and 8:30, supposed to be in the office at 8am - whoops!) I was thinking of all the things that I have learned here, and how I can use these lessons as I move forward. I spent some time comparing my previous company, full of twenty-something hopefuls who work their butts off for a little bit of pay and respect, and my current company full of, well, not-so-twenty-somethings full of people who have put their time in and are still working their butts off for a little bit of pay and some respect. I decided to put together a list of the things I learned, and I hope it's something I come back to in the future to reflect on.
  • You never know how much you are appreciated until you put your notice in.
  • If there are stinky smells coming up from your sink, it's because you need to either a) run water down the drain to get the water that's stuck in the trap to go down or b) you need to clean food out of the trap. The trap is the part where your pipes bend, which leaves a little section where water and food like to sit.
  • Things are not the way they used to be, and they probably never will be again. Fifteen years ago, working as an Admin was a good job. You could become a millionairee just by putting your time in and buying stock in the company.
  • The Golden Rule is still relevant.
  • Women in their twentiess are way more supportive of each other than women in their forties and fifties. I like to believe that it's not the same everywhere, but at my old company women showed each ten fold more support than I've seen in the last nine months.
  • Don't speculate. It's annoying to hear what people think is going to happen. 90% of the time, it never does.
  • There are about twenty-five different coffee vendors in the greater Indianapolis area. If you ever become a coffee sales person, you'll be picked more often than not by the samples that you bring and if you follow up. Ain't nobody got time to follow up with a coffee vendor.
  • Sames goes with vending machines. I know way more about the coffee and vending business than I care to know.
  • Instead of men putting air in the company car's tires, they'll come back and tell you that the tire pressure light is on.
  • No matter the industry or the office environment, there will always be that one person who you just know is a pot head because they have the best stories. And they tell you them over and over and over.
  • No matter how bad it gets, or how many jobs you don't get - never, ever, stop believing.
  • People 35+ do not know how to effectively use Outlook. Teach them. You will make their life better and isn't that a goal as a human being?
  • Leave a small bottle of Static Guard in your desk at all times. You'll avoid a super embarrassing walk down an aisle of professionals with your dress sticking so tightly to your body that they can see every bump.
  • You're never too small or too big to do any job. Be where they need you to be.
  • Someone put their notice in at the same time as I did. Let's just say there's a right way and a wrong way to let your boss know that you're leaving. Don't burn a bridge, you never know where or when you'll see them again.
  • Layoffs are everywhere, and still happening. Don't fool yourself.
  • And lastly, if you aren't happy, recognize that before you end of sitting in a room answering phones for thirteen years. It's a death sentence.
I'm sure there's lots more, but you get the gist.

I'm going to spend the rest of the day finishing things up, visiting the sinkhole (what the ?! - here's your sign) that opened up last evening within steps of my office, and saying farewell!

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Little bit of this, little bit of that.

Time flies!

I won't apologize for my lack of blogging; mostly because I find it annoying when other people do it. Life is busy, sometimes people have nothing to say, and other times people have too much to say but can't figure out how to put it into sentence form. I can attribute my lack of blogging to all three reasons. But, Ashley called me a slacker so I'm back, for now. ;)

Wedding Update

I almost had my first bridezilla moment. Thankfully beer, pizza, and a well-timed text message reeled me in pretty quickly.

Sean and I went to Jos. A. Bank to pick out tuxes. This should be easy, I thought. Ha. Did you know that there are a GAZILLION different vest and tie options? Did you know that no one carries solid colored vests? Not to mention the fact that it was prom season and a Carmel Housewife and her pimply-faced High School junior cut in front of us and stole the ONE table and ONE computer they had set up to go over the available options.

After waiting a solid 25 minutes for someone to acknlowledge us, we began the tux shopping experience. The only good thing that came out of this appointment was that Sean agreed that he liked the midnight blue tuxes. Once we got into the vest and tie options, the lady was totally confused by what I wanted and just was not following or helping me. Gosh, I can feel my blood pressure rising as I type this. I wanted exactly what was in the picture for the ushers, and she looked at me like a deer in headlights. Sean was pretty open to what I was suggesting, but I could tell he was irritated by the entire experience so far. Once she started confusing what I wanted the groomsmen to wear with what d the ushers will wear I knew the appointment was going nowhere.

We gave the lady the names of our groomsmen and ushers, and she told us that she wouldn't be able to cater to our ring bearers because they don't have tuxes in their sizes.  Fine, whatever. Get me out of here.

Before I totally lost it, we left and went over to enjoy a pizza and chug some beers. My blood pressure returned to normal, and Cara responded to my frantic text messages reminding me that "They are only tuxes."

Truer words have never been spoken.

This past weekend my bff, Ashley came up to visit. She went with me to Jos. A. Banks, but a different location, on Saturday - a total whim of a trip, I had planned on going with Cara and Sean's sister, Elizabeth. But, we were at Hamilton Towne Center anways and they had a Jos. A. Banks right there.

The moment we walked in I could tell it was going to be a better experience.

A lady came right to our assistance and after I explained the experience at the other Jos. A. Bank location she said, "Well, I'm a tux expert so let's get this figured out."

The very first thing we did was look up in the computer to see if the lady from the other location had added our information. Of course, she hadn't. Somehow I had everyone's numbers in my phone, so we were able to add all of the groomsmen, the ushers, the ring bearers, and Sean's dad to our account.

The event was created and we were off and running. She explained that the vests, while they don't look solid when your up close, they are a nice solid gray when you take a step back. She also showed us how they would be photographed. She really is a tux genius! She explained that they could indeed, put our ring bearers in ANY tux that they had available. By far, the best news of the day! We organized what the groomsmen are going to wear, as well as the ushers and we moved onto what Sean was wearing, and what his Dad was wearing. It was so much easier than my previous experience.

Plus, she gave us an extra free tux rental! Instead of giving one person a free tux, she divided the amount up and we applied it to the cost of all the tuxes so everyone could save a little money. Weddings are freaking expensive, for the bride (and her family) and groom (and his family), AND for all the people who are actually in the wedding with us.

I walked out with a smile, and a check mark next to Figure out the damn tux situation box on my to-do list.


Our cute Ring Bearers. Isaac, Eli, & Levi. :)


The Groomsmen. Rob, Keith, Justin, Joe, Pat, Shaun, Andrew
 Life Update

I was offered a new position that I just could not turn down. It throws a wrench in Sean's and my life plans, but we're still getting married and we're still going to do everything we planned on doing... we are just not sure where yet. It's an exciting time, and I so exicted about this turn of events. It's going to be rough for the next few months, but the payoff is huge and totally worth it.

Happy Tuesday, y'all!

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Linkup Thursday!

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1. I laughed so hard I cried when... Megan took all the puppies in the movie Bridesmaids... still makes me laugh, just thinking of it! Matter of fact, I think I just planned my Saturday night.

2. My high school... is the pride of the east side! Bitches.

3. It really pisses me off... that my face keeps breaking out as if I'm not drinking a gallon of water a day and avoiding all chocolate. I'm 29 freaking years old and it's the worst I've ever had.

4. In ten years... my student loan payments will be gone!

5. If I could erase one thing... a really terrible decision I made in 2008. That's all you get.

6. In 1999...  I was a Freshman in highschool... and was just getting to know my HS bff, Katie.

7. Honestly... why does water coming out of a reusable water bottle taste so disgusting to me?

8. To me, Sushi... totally worth the money, most of the time.

9. Someone really needs to invent... an umbrella for the sky. Shouldn't we be able to control the weather by now?

10. The first time I drank alcohol... I was barely 20, at IU. What do you expect from one of the #1 party schools in the nation?

11. The one question I would ask God is... am I doing okay?

12. Lindsay Lohan... totally cray cray, but I love it when she lets her hair color be natural


Check out how others answered the questions at Holly's blog!

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

A to Z

A. Age: veinti y nueve
B. Bed size: Queen
C. Chore you hate: I hate folding clothes and putting them away. Hit the dryer start button again, please.
D. Dogs: Eventually, I think I want one. If it's a girl, her name will be Ola. If it's a boy, his name will be Dipo. See what we did there?
E. Essential start to your day: A shower, otherwise I feel like I'm sleeping all day.
F. Favorite color: Not a fair question. All of them.
G. Gold or Silver: Either. But if it's going to be gold, I need to pick it out.
H. Height: 5 feet 5 inches of awesomeness
I. Instruments you play: Used to play flute and tenor sax
J. Job Title: Administrative Assistant
K. Kids: Lucy, Eli, Graham, Levi, Addison, and Katie are my favs
L. Live: Living is good. Live music is better.
M. Married: Dude, ALMOST! :)
N. Nicknames: Betsy boo boo, Betsy Eugene, and thankfully I haven't heard anyone call me Boots recently. I hated that nickname.
O. Overnight hospital stays: Just once. When I had my gall bladder removed. Best and most painful couple days of my life. But my Grandma was admitted to the hospital at the same time so at least I had a good buddy.
P. Pet peeve: If I listed them all, I would no longer be liked. But my biggest pet peeve is when peeps text other people in the same room, amongst company. If it can't be said out loud at that time, then there is a better time and place for it. Show some respect.
Q. Quote: I love lots. But right at this moment in my life, this is the one I keep going back to: 
"The first step towards getting somewhere is to decide that you are not going to stay where you are."
R. Righty or Lefty:  Righty
S. Siblings: Lots. One older sister, one older brother, two little sisters. Two brother-in-laws, one sister-in-law and I'm about to add more once I get hitched. I love having a big family!
T. Time you wake up: 7am-ish
U. University attended: Indiana University
V. Vegetables you dislike: Lima Beans ;)
W. What makes you run late: Hitting the snooze button one too many times. Or stopping at the gas station for an emergency caffeine fix. Or the stupid light at Keystone & 96th Street.
X. X-rays you've had: I've broken both my arms, so there's two. And they take x-rays at the dentist too, but that has been done more than once.
Y. Yummy food: Ashley's Pizza Cups... Addicted.
Z. Zoo animal favorite: I'm always amazing at large freaking elephants.

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

So Long!

Tax season is over! Can I get an AMEN?!

Whew! That was tougher than I thought. I honestly didn't think that going to Jim's office after putting in my normal days work would be that rough. But, let me tell you... after five days of thirteen hour days, one day of beer-festing it up, and another two days straight at Jim's office I AM POOPED. Not to mention the three weeks I put in before I started going over there every night. And wouldn't mind hearing the words "tax", "process", or "invoice" for a few months.

I will make a pretty penny from all the time I spent at his office, which honestly, makes it all worth it in my mind.

My big plan is to use some of the money to buy Sean's wedding band, to buy new running shoes, and put the rest into my IRA account... must.start.saving.more.money.

I found some Mizuno's on Amazon that are a good price, and while I like my Saucony's (which I spent a pretty penny on back in December) I'm ready for a switch-up.



And finally, now that tax season is over it's time to get back on the wedding train. I have a lot of balls up in the air right now and it's time to make them come down and put them in the spots they belong.

Here's a few pictures from our Saturday Brew Fest experience in Bloomington this past weekend.













Monday, April 15, 2013

Boston

"Running is a sport of goodwill. It's the only sport in the world where if a competitor falls, the others around will pick him or her up. It's the only sport in the world open to absolutely everyone, regardless of gender, age, ethnicity or any other division you can think of. It's the only occasion when thousands of people assemble, often in a major city, for a reason that is totally peaceful, healthy and well-meaning. It's the only sport in the world where no one ever boos anybody."
-Roger Robinson, Runner's World, April 15th, 2013


Thursday, April 11, 2013

Slow News Day

I don't think that last blog about my wedding color choices really give my vision justice. You will just have to wait and see, I guess! I'm sure when the time comes there will be lots of blogging with lots of pictures to remember our most special day.

I apologize for this uber boring blog post, and to try to make up for it I was going to present you with a blog I wrote in 2008. Remember Live Journal? My friends-at-the-time and I used to blog all.the.time. Mostly about boys. And school. And as it turns out, I really loved Jack Johnson because I ended almost every one of my entries with lyrics from one of his songs.

So, instead of an old blog post, you get Jack Johnson lyrics. Enjoy.

There's no combination of words
I could put on the back of a postcard
No song I could sing
But I can try for your heart
Our dreams, and they are made out of real things
Like a, shoebox of photographs
With sepia tone loving
Love is the answer,
At least for most of the questions in my heart
Like why are we here? and where do we go?
And how come it's so hard?
It's not always easy and
Sometimes life can be deceiving
I'll tell you one thing its always better when we're together

[Chorus:]
MMM its always better when we're together
Yeah, look at the stars when we're together
Well, it's always better when we're together
Yeah, it's always better when we're together

And all of these moments
Just might find their way into my dreams tonight
But I know that they'll be gone
When the morning light sings
And brings new things
For tomorrow night you see
That they'll be gone too
Too many things I have to do
But if all of these dreams might find their way
Into my day to day scene
I'd be under the impression
I was somewhere in between
With only two
Just me and you
Not so many things we got to do
Or places we got to be
We'll Sit beneath the mango tree now

Its always better when we're together
Mmmm, we're somewhere in between together
Well, it's always better when we're together
Yeah, it's always better when we're together

MMmmmm MMMmmmm Mmmmmm
I believe in memories
They look so, so pretty when I sleep
Hey now, and when I wake up,
You look so pretty sleeping next to me
But there is not enough time,
And there is no song I could sing
And there is no, combination of words I could say
But I will still tell you one thing
We're Better together.